Friday, June 20, 2014

Servanthood... the church as it should be...


For two years, I've had the privilege of seeing some of the inside story of Servanthood.  On the outside, Servanthood is a summer week-long camp of community service encouraging middle school students from different churches in The Midlands to reach out to the communities around them with the love of Christ.  This sounds good all by itself, but it gets better.

Several years ago, when my kids were in middle school, I was hesitant to send my kids to Servanthood.  I remember thinking that I may trust my youth leader, though I really didn't know the him very well, but I certainly didn't know these other random youth pastors and didn't know if I trusted my offspring to their care.  I think it's right to be cautious and prayerful.  Besides, youth pastors are notorious for being "carefree" sometimes and, honestly, most of these guys are no exception.  However, Servanthood was probably both of my girls' favorite middle school youth event and competes for their favorite youth event, period. Both came back as student leaders.  If I knew then what I know now, I would have more easily thrown some of my caution to the wind. 

My younger daughter (and I) had the opportunity to take a leadership and intern class with our youth pastor.  Part of this class was attending the planning meeting for Servanthood.  She and I took notes and sent emails and talked about agendas for the next meetings.  We met the youth pastors from around the area and watched them interact.  Starting in January, they met monthly to discuss, plan, and pray about the event.  As the time drew closer, they met every other week and then weekly during the last month. 

We watched how they encouraged one another and got on rabbit trails and came back together.  We watched them encourage one another.  We saw when people disagreed, though it wasn't often, and we watch these guys lay it down and walk together.  We watched them dread some of the work and the energy it was going to take.  We also watched their faces light with life as they really engaged in what they were doing.  We saw how they loved their students. We watched God provide in wonderful ways for Servanthood and we watched plans fall through and frustration mount and then God carry out His purposes as they looked to Him to do it.  We saw interactions in the event itself as guys who are used to making the decisions for their groups figure out how to take charge or defer to the other leaders.  I watched over and again these guys praying for each other and encouraging one another on.  They showed the students how we need community to follow Christ together.  They provided this environment in Servanthood and they walked it out as leaders.

We got to be involved a second year and watched how the core guys invited and embraced other youth pastors into the group.  We saw fire light in the eyes of the new folks and we watched these pastors bring their gifts to the group and we watched while hardship entered the camp and the guys rallied to one another and stood by and invited each other to holiness. 

We got to see that these guys became friends and that they had each others' backs.  Our church and another ended up partnering for a summer together.  These two churches have students that are friends.  We don't have a competition as to which church is better but rather that we are all about the same business and it's good to walk together.  The youth pastors can confer about how to help students.  More than one student asked about other youth groups if they met on a different night from their own.  These students connected with the other youth pastors, too, and the more role models for students, the better. 

It's really beautiful to me.  Servanthood is a beautiful mess.  I cannot help but smile.  It's what the church is to be about in reality - walking together in unity across denominational lines.  These guys do that beautifully.  I've never experienced anything like it.  It's better than a para-church organization which takes the whole thing outside the local churches.  These guys each serve in their own churches and partner with other churches in the area to weave unity among the believers.  If the middle school students can learn this and live it, it gives a little more hope for Christians to be known by their love, rather than their divisions as they walk on with God.  It would be even more exciting to me if the other pastors catch the vision of what is happening here and walk together in the same way.  They could each work in their sphere of influence and use the gifts God has given each of them to minister to their own congregations, but also to walk hand in hand with other congregations. 

I've walked through some church yuck in my lifetime.  I've been discouraged to see believers and church leaders act like they (we) do.  However, in this experience the past two years, I see the beauty of the church moving and working together through some often un-organized but amazingly gifted young men who love Jesus and love the students they serve.  They pick on each other about which cell phone is the best and poke fun at each other.  They complain about goofy middle school students and picky parents.  Over and above all of this, they love Jesus and they love these students and they love each other.  They support one another well and their example is one that needs to be followed throughout the church.

The outcome is the favor of God and the work of the Holy Spirit as He touches the lives of middle school students who are changed forever into lovers of God.  Young students who don't know for sure if this faith of their parents is for them or not often take this opportunity to own it for themselves.  Others are reminded of what life is about.  They learn that they can make a difference and it's not just cause the guy the church pays to do this is telling them.  They are part of something much bigger.  This makes all of it worthwhile. 

I want to be part of this kind of thing forever.  It's like a taste of heaven.

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